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SPEED DATING

Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process or dating system (a variant of a meeting system) whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people. Its origins are credited to Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah, as a way to ensure that more Jewish singles met each other in large cities where they were outnumbered by non-Jews. "SpeedDating", as a single word, is a registered trademark of Aish HaTorah. "Speed dating", as two separate words, is often used as a generic term for similar events.

The first speed-dating event took place at Pete’s Café in Beverly Hills in late 1998.[1] Soon afterward, several commercial services began offering similar events across the United States. By 2000, speed dating had really taken off, perhaps boosted by its portrayal in shows such as Sex and the City as something that glamourous people did. Supporters argue that speed dating saves time, as most people decide if they are romantically compatible very quickly, and first impressions are often permanent.


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The Ins and Outs of Speed Dating
By L Ruppert

In the past, there were very few options with regard to how individuals could meet people and date. There were the usual set-ups and random encounters that would result in a date, however, these days dating has been taken to a whole new level. Dating services, Internet dating and the relatively new speed dating phenomenon have come into existence. Speed dating is one dating method in particular that has captured the eyes and ears of the dating public. In order to determine whether speed dating is a viable option for an individual, it is important to learn a little bit more about this dating avenue.

What Is Speed Dating?

In an informal setting, speed dating originated with Jewish individuals who were looking to find prospective spouses in areas where there was a large non-Jewish community. This was arranged in a meet and greet fashion where a large number of individuals could mingle and get to know one another. In a formal arena, speed dating is set up by organizers such as dating agencies that rent out a room in a bar or restaurant type setting and arrange for a group of individuals to pay a fee and attend. The individuals will then have approximately 8 minutes to sit at a table with a prospective mate and basically chat. When the time is up, the individuals will rotate to another table and sit with a new prospective date and so on. Once everyone has had a chance to meet all of the other prospective individuals, the participants will fill out a form and list who they would like to see again. After the speed dating session has ended the organizers will review the lists and if there are any matches where both individuals are interested in one another, phone numbers will be handed out so that the participants can take it from there.

Advantages to Speed Dating

There are many advantages with regards to the speed dating process. The first has to deal with access. One of the main hurdles that individuals have to jump over with regard to the dating scene is access to other singles. Frequently singles are too busy with work to go out and find places to meet other single individuals. Additionally, some people don't know the right places to go where meeting a potential mate might be a possibility. For these reasons, the accessibility to other singles which speed dating provides is a very attractive quality of this matchmaking method.

Time efficiency is another valuable quality of speed dating. Because each "date" lasts approximately 8 minutes and first impressions are quite important, one can usually determine even in that small period of time whether or not there may be something there. Rather than go out with one individual for a whole evening and not know whether or not the compatibility factor is there, speed dating takes care of this problem by having mini-dates as a deciding factor with regard to whether or not the individual is interested in having a full-blown date with someone.

Another advantage to speed dating is the fact that face-to-face rejection is less likely to be an option as one does not know who is interested in pursuing the relationship further until after the speed dating session has ended and numbers are (or are not) exchanged. This helps to soften the blow of not receiving an offer of a date at a face-to-face exchange.

A safe environment in which to meet other singles is another positive aspect to speed dating. Rather than venture out on a blind date or first date with someone whom one does not know, attending a speed dating session is a safe alternative as it is a group of individuals in one location where personal information is not exchanged and speed daters can feel secure in knowing that they will most likely be free from any potential harm.

Lastly, at these speed dating sessions, individuals who attend know that all of the other people who are there are attending this session because they are single and looking to mingle. This differs from a bar scene, for example, where individuals do not know who is single, involved or married and have to sift through the crowd to find available potential mates.

Disadvantages of Speed Dating

As with any situation, there will be pros but there will also be cons as well. One disadvantage to the speed dating method of meeting other single individuals is having to base a future date on an 8-minute first impression. Because a speed dating session is so brief, one has to say and do all of the right things in a short period of time in order to impress the other individual. This may be more difficult for some individuals who are shyer than others and take awhile to warm up to another person.

Another thing which those opposed to speed dating point out is that much of the speed dating sessions are based on shallow factors such as looks. Since one can only find out so much about another individual in a short period of time, whether or not a first date follows from a speed dating session is frequently based on physical characteristics. This tends to put more emphasis on looks as opposed to other attractive inner qualities such as personality and a good outlook on life.

Costs of Speed Dating and How to Find a Service Provider

Speed dating is relatively inexpensive and the price of these dating sessions depends on both the service provider and any extra amenities such as food and drink which may be included. One can usually sign up for a speed dating session for around $20. This is a great deal for the potential of finding the perfect mate.

With regard to finding a speed dating provider, one can usually get information by looking in the local newspaper in the Living/Entertainment section or using the Internet to do a search for speed dating providers. Recommendations from friends and family members are also great ways of locating companies which arrange speed dating sessions.

Speed dating is a great way to possibly find the perfect match. It is safe, inexpensive and convenient. All of these factors make speed dating a wonderful option for those looking to find a mate or simply someone to enjoy a few nice dates with.

Laura Rupert writes for DrDating.com a site filled with dating advice and tips about dating, love and relationships. DrDating.com has a huge library of articles about online dating.

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Speed Dating - What is It, How to Does it Work?
By David Kamau

A popular dating and matchmaking trend is upon us. It is called speed dating. Naturally, it has found a new home on the internet. But what exactly is it and how does it work?

Speed dating origins is credited to a Jewish Rabbi Yaacov Deyo, who is said to have invented it as way Jewish people meet in areas where they were outnumbered by non-Jews. I not sure the Rabbi anticipated such a huge growth in his creation. But that's a different subject.

So, what is speed dating?

Well, as the name suggests, speed dating is process or event for men and women meet in great numbers for the purpose of finding a match in the shortest possible time. Speed dating is also gaining popularity among the gay and lesbian communities.

Who sort of people participate in speed dating?

Mainly busy professionals and people who lead busy lives and don't have time for traditional dating. They are normal, attractive people who want to meet compatible prospects without wasting time.

How does speed dating work?

The event is pre-planned by an organizer. This is crucial for, as they say, "The more the merrier" and also, for safety reasons, it is important for participants to be screened and supervised. During the actual event couples meet and interact with each other one-on-one for a brief period of time, usually less than ten minutes.

Once the minutes are over you move on to the next possible prospect, no matter how much you are enjoying the present interaction or, conversely, you dread the next one. This offers participants as wide a choice as possible, therefore increasing chances of finding someone.

Also, the time limit ensures that everyone gets equal opportunity, while avoiding getting stuck with a person with whom they no longer wish to talk to.

At the end of the event participants submit a list of persons they would like to meet again. The matching process takes place after the event to ensure no one faces rejection. The organizers then look for matches and inform both parties (if two people pick each other, it's a match).

In a speed dating event, no contacts are exchanged directly, to avoid face-to-face rejection. Arguing is prohibited and an atmosphere of fun and enjoyment encouraged.

Though the process may vary with each organizer, the basics of speed dating usually remain the same.

What are the advantages of speed dating?

The most obvious advantage is- you guessed it- speed. You get to meet a variety of people, all of whom are there to for one thing, to find a mate. It allows a large number of daters to meet in one short event.

Another advantage is that it is a two-way traffic. Women don't have to just sit there and wait to be approached and men do not have to play the traditional role of aggressors while trying to guess if the woman is be interested or not.

The averting of face-to-face rejection is also a big advantage, don't you think?

What are the disadvantages of speed dating?

The biggest advantage is also the biggest disadvantage: Time. You have a very short time to make an impression. For some people the pressure may be too much. For people who can't start a conversation easily with a stranger it might also pose a challenge.

Critics of speed dating also point out that it emphasizes on first impressions, which may not necessarily be indication of future compatibility. Well, most relationships start this way anyway, so I don't see a big issue here.

Speed dating is a great way to meet prospects and, possibly, your soul-mate. Many people who have tried it say the interaction is fun, no matter the outcome. Reputable speed dating sites offer the option of meeting prospects online, at an event, or both.

David Kamau is webmaster of dating review site. To find reputable speed dating sites go to: Speed Dating Services

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Speed Dating Advice and Questions
By Kegan Murcell

Questions to ask when Speed Dating

When people speed date they are normally a bit unsettled and cant remember what to say to the person opposite them and might appear to be someone they aren't. This is true for a lot of beginners and this is where we are going to speak about the different questions you could ask the other singles while speed-dating. Our advice may not be awesome and inspiring and might work for only a couple of you but at least its something for all the beginners that need it who are trying to get lose their "single" status.

So, when you are at your speed dating meeting, you will have the time to glance around and eye out the various candidates, take some mind notes of them and make special note of beginners, they are usually easy to spot as they seem shy and nervous about meeting people and speed dating. Use my advice and if you are a beginner in the speed-dating game then you should pick out another beginner and try to focus on them from the get go. Think of questions you can ask them, like if it is their first time or what they do in their spare time and how they are feeling. Speed dating is not something to be scared of, it was created to get beyond all the rubbish and to get directly to speaking to someone single so you can find things out about them. Advice for all of the singles out there, when speed dating, try not to be too confident or boring when you are talking with someone, you need to be spontaneous and semi confident. Beginners, dont fret too much as this will come with practice. The questions you ask can be anything from, where do you see yourself three years from now, to, what is you favourite TV programme.

You should have some questions set aside for the meeting as you have limited time and its not good if you run out of things to say. My advice would be to scribble them down and maybe take them with you and look at them every now and again. Speed dating can make you stress and its better to stay in control, beginners especially. Even if you look over them during conversation, it can create another line of chat so don't be afraid. No one is perfect and they are all single, just like you.

Remember that this is just advice for beginners and singles that are seeking a little bit of help. You may ask questions about my advice but remember that its just here as an aid and its good to question it as it brings about new thought patterns and then you can answer some of your own speed dating questions. It may seem easy for some people out there but i am aiming this info at the speed daters who need it, the beginners that aren't comfortable when speed dating, the singles who want some more advice and info on what they should be doing and when and why. Those are the ones i am helping.

Some more questions you could ask at speed dating are ones that will tell you more about the person, ie, what do you do for a living, where were you born, what is your dream, are you enjoying the speed dating and things like that. Remember beginners, we all start somewhere so don't be afraid of those other singles. Get those questions out there...

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Guidelines on Speed Dating
By Andrew Darson

This is the time of impatient generation that wants everything fast. We want quick money, fast fame, fast food and fast life. When everything is so quick and easily accessible, then how can 'dating' stay behind? Speed dating is the 'in' thing, which is one of the amazing trends in several countries. Want to have some exciting fun, enjoyable and great pass of time? Get into speed dating. But, before that, know some essential aspects of speed dating from the given discussion.

If you are familiar about musical chair game, then you can easily take part in speed dating too where there are some numbered chairs. On such a numbered chair, ladies take the seat and after that they are joined by gents. The time of conversation between the couple is three minutes and then buzzer rings and partner changes. There are several such three-minute rounds and based on the performance of couples in such rounds, points are given to them. Couple with maximum points becomes the winner of this speed dating game.

There are possibilityof going with forty dates on an average night. In a match, a man can date with six women, which is definitely interesting. But that also means that you have to impress all of them and for that the following tips would help you.

Charm is the most essential factor that girl loves, improve on it. Polish up your looks and maintain a good-looking smile. The approach should be friendly so that the woman gets drooled by your attraction. select the color of your dress carefully. Wear something that can make you look attractive but at the same time make sure that your attire does not overshadow your personality. Be comfortable with what you are wearing and shower confidence in your approach.

You must win hearts by speaking properly and thus maintain an excellent conversation. This doesn't mean that you start with dull topics and turn off your dating partner. keep a good sense of humor in your discussions and always try to involve the lady. Do not go on and on.

One of the important aspect of speed dating is the smell. males can try out a awesome fragrances like vanilla and cinnamon perfume. If you are a woman, black licorice perfume can be immensely attractive and seductive.

The prize for the winners of speed dating contest is probably the most exciting and charming thing. After the game gets over, the winners are provided a chance to go for a date.

You can find your match in three minutes and win a opportunity to go on a date for three hours or more. Make proper preparation after winning the speed date game. Confirm the dating place, take your sell phone, buy a gift and enjoy.

This concept of speed dating is nice fun. The concept of such dating is to find a match and a soul partner. Sadly, this concept is losing its significance as couples are more interested to short-time fun. Have fun with speed dating but also try to take this opportunity to search for your true love.

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Three Tips For Speed Dating Success
By David Sproat

Some say that when you find the right person, the person you are meant to spend the rest of your life with, you know as soon as you look into their eyes. This is the belief that speed dating is based on.

The idea of speed-dating is that you are able to meet a whole bunch of other singles that, like you, are looking for someone to date. In addition to meeting a whole bunch of singles in one place, you don't have to worry about having to spend hours with someone who you're really not interested like you do when you go out on a traditional first date. When you are speed dating, you are only committed to spending a few minutes with a person before you move onto the next. If you meet someone you like and who likes you too, the pair of you can exchange numbers or email addresses and arrange to go out on a date that last more than a few minutes.

Some people swear that speed-dating works, that it is the ideal way of finding a mate. Others aren't quite so sure. Everyone does agree that speed-dating is lots of fun, and that every single person in the world should try it at least once.

There are several things you can do to make your first try at speed dating a success.

Be Prompt

Even though you want to make an impression during your foray into speed dating, you don't want that impression to be that you don't care enough to get there on time. When you are going to a speed dating event, you should make sure you know when the speed-dating is scheduled to start and where it is being held. Give yourself plenty of time to get there. This is a situation where it is better to be early instead of late.

Be Cheerful

Yes, you want to give the people you meet during your speed dating excursion to get a sense for who you really are, you also want to put your best foot forward. You should at least be in a good mood while you are going through the speed dating process. If you've had a bad day, or just aren't feeling very happy, you should stay home with a good book and a bag of chocolate and try speed dating when you are in a better mood.

In addition to being in a pleasant mood, you should also try to avoid sensitive subjects while you are speed dating. Stick to pleasant neutral topics, you will have plenty of time to push on anothers hot buttons on future dates.

Be Bold

When you are speed dating, you can't be afraid to be the aggressor in the relationship. If you want to get to know someone better, you need to be upfront about your attraction.

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