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Valentines Day Arousal and Seduction Tips Sensual seduction and female arousal involves 70% communication and 30% physical. The 10 facts below are common tidbits of information anyone can find online. Although basic facts on Valentines Day, they present a valuable weapon in the art of seduction. Thoroughly memorizing them followed by using creative applications is seduction personified. The first step is learning the 10 facts well enough to repeat them to a friend or colleague. It is not necessary to know all 10 word for word, but the general theme. A technique to imprint the list to memory is using the bolding feature on your computer. Bold proper names, dates, and general themes of each factoid will take 20-30 minutes. After bolding all 10, commit them to memory through repetition. Once memorized, the next and most crucial step is creative application. Creative application is brainstorming ways to communicate them in an innovative way. In addition to communicating these details, creative application ventures into non-direct methods. A simple technique can be written in the Valentines Day card. Most men rely on the message printed in the card followed by his term of endearment and signature. Instead, buy a blank card and write a message using one of the 10 Valentines facts. For example, take fact 4. Briefly write why X became representative of a kiss and then finish using number 10 on why Doves represent love. The combinations alone are infinite. Another tip is the email message. For example, put number 2 in the subject line bolded with italics saying "Feast of Lupercalia." In the body, briefly describe the feast and how Valentines together will feel like the "Feast of Lupercalia." As stated, these 10 facts become part of your arsenal for seduction. If single and out on the town looking to meet women, the creative step is minimal. In the single man meeting a single woman strategy, the goal is subtly discussing Valentines Day using memorized factoids. Emphasis is on being subtle and not being verbose. Once she expresses interest in Valentines Day, introducing other tidbits are acceptable. The goal is a humble manner void of being pompous or egotistical. If married or actively dating, creative application becomes paramount. Using creative application is dictated by the time involved with a woman. If married or a couple for more than one year, creative application requires more planning. More strategic planning is due to her knowing his intellect, areas of interest, and hidden agendas. If past Valentines Day exchanges were dull, creative applications may be received with suspicion. The 10 Valentines Day facts are as follows. 1. Valentines Day dates back to the Roman Empire during the reign of Claudius. As legend has it; Emperor Claudius forbade men to marry believing bachelors functioned better as soldiers during wartime. Objecting to the Emperor's statute, Bishop Valentine continued to perform secret marital ceremonies. Deemed subversive, Valentine was incarcerated with execution as punishment. Young people flocked to visit him. One young woman was the daughter of the prison guard. On the day of his execution, Valentine scribed a note to her signing it "Love from your Valentine". This was on February 14, 269 A. D. 2. The Romans celebrated the Feast of Lupercalia. Lupercalia was a pastoral festival celebrated from February 13th through the 15th. The theme was to purify the city by expelling evil spirits releasing fertility and health. Lupercalia replaced Februa, an even older spring cleansing ritual held on the same date. This ancient ritual word, Februa, continues to thrive giving the month of February its name. 3. February 14th may be the celebrated day of St. Valentines, but during ancient Rome the 14th of February was celebrated to honor Juno. She was a Roman goddess, equivalent to Hera, the Greek queen of the gods. Juno was a majestic figure wearing a diadem on her head. The peacock was her symbolic animal. Juno was also the guardian spirit of women and marriage. 4. The letter X is the symbol used in XO when signing a letter, card, or online message meaning a "kiss" is attached. X became the symbol of the kiss during medieval times. The vast majority of citizens could not read or write. Having few skills in penmanship, contractual agreements were signed writing the letter X. The person was witnessed writing the X and then kissed the X confirming validation. 5. During the middle ages, a custom each year was for young men and women to pick a name from a bowl predicting who would be their Valentine. Once their lucky Valentine was chosen, they would wear his/her name pinned to their sleeves for an entire week. From this custom comes the expression "to wear your heart on your sleeve." 6. Chocolate has historical significance symbolizing love, passion, and a gift for Valentines Day. Casanova, known as symbolizing the worlds "greatest lover", ate chocolate believing it heightened his sexual prowess. As recent as the 19th century, doctors prescribed chocolate for their patients experiencing negative symptoms caused by a lost love. Also during the latter part of the 19th century, the Cadbury Company produced and marketed boxes of chocolate for loved ones on Valentines. 7. Flowers remain the gift of choice on Valentines Day. Roses are most popular and red roses continue to be their color of choice. The color red and the red rose have symbolized love and romance dating back to ancient times. In Greek and Roman mythology, the red rose was associated with the Goddess of Love. Aphrodite symbolized love for the Greeks and the Romans had Venus. 8. Cupid is one of the most famous symbols of Valentine's Day. Like many cultural symbols, Cupid represents love and romance. Cupid was the son of Venus, Goddess of Love in ancient Roman mythology. In Greek mythology, Cupid was named Eros and the son of Aphrodite. In both Roman and Greek mythology, Cupid was depicted as a child and not a portly baby with wings. Latin mythology introduced Cupid being chubby, naked, and adorning wings. His bow with quiver of arrows was not to kill, but induce love. 9. The symbol of a heart is associated with Valentine's Day. The custom of drawing a heart shape originated from early attempts to draw a human organ that few witnessed. Ancient cultures believed the soul lived in the heart. The theory of how the heart became a symbol of love is attributed to the Romans and Greeks. Greeks believed Eros and Cupid for the Romans were commissioned by their mothers to shoot unsuspecting victims with their arrows causing the person to fall hopelessly in love. 10. Birds are symbols of Valentines Day and two particular species represent symbols of love. Lovebirds and Doves are the two. Lovebirds found in Africa, are brilliantly colored and huddle close together with their mates. Doves are symbols of loyalty because they mate for life. Also endeared by humans are doves parenting dynamics. Doves mate for life and share in the responsibilities of caring for their fledglings. How to Arouse and Seduce Women on Valentines Day is an easy exercise to learn, devise, and implement. Women enjoy men they deem interesting and spark their intrigue. The technique of arousing her mind does not require a doctoral degree, but the effort involved is what will arouse. Arousing and seducing women using intellectual prowess are not just for Valentines Day. This technique can be used for every holiday and as a general approach for any and all occasions. The art of seducing a woman starts at the top, her mind, and then slowly working to other areas. Dr. Michael Nuccitelli is a New York State licensed psychologist and certified forensic consultant. Dr. Nuccitelli completed his doctoral degree in clinical psychology in 1994 from the Adler School of Professional Psychology located in Chicago, Illinois. In 2006, he received a Diplomate of the American Board of Psychological Specialties and certification as a forensic consultant from the American College of Forensic Examiners Institute. Dr. Nuccitelli is a New York state resident residing in the Hudson Valley 65 miles North of Manhattan. Over the last 25 years, Dr. Nuccitelli has worked in the mental health field in a variety of capacities with various clinical populations. In addition to mental health, Dr. Nuccitelli has worked in the area of forensic psychology conducting forensic evaluations and consulting services for attorneys and court systems. Presently, he is a consultant providing his expertise to the community, legal system, and media. In addition to his work with the community, Dr. Nuccitelli is an informational consultant for Nutraloid Labs, a New York based sports nutrition and male enhancement supplement company. At their two online distribution websites, http://www.goliathlabs.com/ and http://www.herberex.com/, he writes and develops educational information for visitors. Dr. Nuccitelli's areas of expertise are forensic psychology, heath/fitness, and psychiatric/psychological issues. He also is an avid follower of current news and enjoys interfacing with the media regarding current events. Dr. Nuccitelli can be reached at 845-592-0120 or via email at drnucc@optonline.net
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